I love a good argument when in a relationship…. not the typical argument where two people are going at it – things are thrown, feelings are hurt, and the two people don’t talk for 3-4 days; I’m talking about one where two people are going at it – things may be thrown, and at the end the two come to an understanding and go back to loving each other — I feel what makes the argument last longer than needed, is that long gap in between — no one wants to be the bigger one and say “ok, so how to we fix this, or are we finished now?” But when the two people can express themselves freely, let the person talk and say what they have to say, and both apologize at the end, the relationship is so much better because of it.